Erica Hildebrand, RTC
Registered Therapeutic Counsellor
As your therapist, I am...
Calm, grounded, and not afraid to sit with the hard things
Warm and real, while making space for honest, deep emotional work
A steady & compassionate presence when life feels overwhelming
Someone who believes healing happens through feeling seen, understood and supported
I often work with clients who...
Notice their bodies constantly feeling on edge, overwhelmed, shut down, or stuck in survival mode
Are working to break generational patterns and parent with greater intention and confidence
Are learning to find their voice and set healthier boundaries
Feel weighed down by anxiety, stress, depression, or emotional overwhelm
Are grieving losses or adjusting to life after a significant change
Are healing from trauma, attachment wounds, and relationship patterns that no longer serve them
My education and designations...
Registered Therapeutic Counsellor (RTC: ACCT #2999)
Registered Member (CCPA #11265517)
Professional Counselling Practitioner (CCPCP.R: CCPCP #3049)
Counselling & Applied Psychology - Kelowna College of Professional Counselling
hi, I'm Erica!
* Currently taking new clients in person & online!
“We can make room for where things came from while also figuring out what you need right now!”
My Approach
Much of my work focuses on anxiety, burnout, chronic stress, nervous system overwhelm. As well as, healing from attachment wounds, difficult relationships, and painful experiences that continue to shape you long after they’ve happened. I’m especially proficient in connecting dots by helping you understand how earlier experiences influence how you see yourself, connect with others, set boundaries, people please, and respond when you feel rejected, overwhelmed, or disconnected.
I draw from Psychodynamic and Emotionally Focused Therapy and also Internal Family Systems principles. I help you gently explore your inner world and welcome all the different sides of who you are. By understanding your anxious, angry, or protective parts instead of fighting them, we can cultivate the deep self compassion needed for lasting healing. We might explore the emotions and attachment needs underneath a pattern, get curious about the parts of you that are trying to protect you, or look at how past experiences are influencing the way you relate to yourself and others today.
Most importantly, I want therapy with me to feel warm, genuine, and human. I want you to feel safe enough to be real, understood without judgment, and supported as we work toward feeling more grounded, connected, and genuinely yourself.
More About Me....
I'm a mom to three incredible daughters, married to my husband for 23 years, and the owner of a counselling practice that I truly love. When I'm not in the office, you'll usually find me enjoying a slow morning with a coffee on my deck, spending time with my family, antiquing, going for a walk, redecorating a corner of my home, trying a new restaurant, or heading to a musical or concert. And if I'm being honest? Some of my favourite days are the ones with absolutely no agenda…just staying in my pajamas, binge-watching a great show, and giving myself permission to slow down. It's a rhythm I'm continually learning to embrace, and one I encourage my clients to discover for themselves, too.